Top 10 Green Flags To Look Out For In A Relationship

While we tend to focus on red flags and how to avoid people with them, we often don’t talk about the green flags to look out for in a blossoming relationship.

Studies reveal that on average within 42 minutes and 29 seconds of a first date, most people know whether they would progress to a second date or not – proving that the first impression really does count.

Recently, many are relying on green, red and beige flags as a cheat code for compatibility.

It is easy to spot the red flags when dating, but what about the green?

Green flags are a sign of healthy behaviours that give you clarity on whether your partner is a right fit for you.

Knowing what to look out for when on a first date is a good shortcut to finding the one. But what are the most common green flags?

BonusFinder surveyed over 2,000 people to uncover some of the top green flags when it comes to dating, and the results were very interesting.

The survey found that being attentive is the top green flag, with offering to pay the bill landing in second place 

Both men and women find it attractive for their date to offer to pay, with 48% of women and 44% of men considering it a positive act.

Meanwhile, in third place being proactive and putting in the effort is a turn-on for many, with 43% of people declaring organising dates a green flag and the way to their hearts.

Taking fourth place is having a shared sense of humour, and fifth place went to those who are spontaneous – whether it’s booking flights on a whim or never knowing where the night may take you.

Other green flags that didn’t make the top 15 include sticking to plans and being on time with 12% of votes, being a gamer with 7% and not being judgemental with 6%.

Check out a full list of the top green flags below: 

1. Attentive listener (59.7%)
2. Offers to pay the bill (46.8%)
3. Organises dates (42.5%)
4. Shared sense of humour (38.7%)
5. Is spontaneous (34.7%)
6. Good manners (30.8%)
7. Remembers your likes/dislikes (29.4%)
8. Family orientated (28.8%)
9. Showing enthusiasm (28.1%)
10. Responsive/good communication (27.0%)
11. Talks about their emotions (24.9%)
12. Generous with gifts (24.0%)
13. Open to new things and experiences (22.7%)
14. Passionate about career/work (20.7%)
15. Has lots of hobbies (20.0%)