Phillip Schofield has admitted he hasn’t even discussed divorcing his wife Stephanie, after coming out as gay.
Back in February, the 58-year-old publicly came out as gay by releasing an emotional statement on social media – with the support of his wife and two daughters.
Speaking about his relationship with Steph now on Chris Evans’ podcast How to Wow, Phillip said: “We’re picking our way through. It’s a work in progress.”
“I’m still married to Steph. With divorce… we’ve not discussed that at all.”
Phillip was on the podcast to talk about his new memoir, and in the book, the TV presenter admitted he was on the verge of a “total breakdown” before he came out.
He wrote: “I had to come out. If I didn’t, the secret was going to give me a total breakdown… at best.”
Phillip came out as gay in an emotional statement released on social media, before sitting down with his This Morning co-host Holly Willoughby to open up about his decision.
The post read: “You never know what’s going on in someone’s seemingly perfect life, what issues they are struggling with, or the state of their wellbeing – and so you won’t know what has been consuming me for the last few years.”
A statement from Phillip pic.twitter.com/iIE7NcLZ2I
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“With the strength and support of my wife and my daughters, I have been coming to terms with the fact that I am gay.”
“This is something that has caused many heart-breaking conversations at home. I have been married to Steph for nearly 27 years, and we have two beautiful grown-up daughters, Molly and Ruby,” he continued.
“My family have held me so close: they have tried to cheer me up, to smother me with kindness and love, despite their own confusion. Yet still I can’t sleep and there have been some very dark moments.”
“My inner conflict contrasts with an outside word that has changed so very much for the better. Today, quite rightly, being gay is a reason to celebrate and be proud. Yes, I am feeling pain and confusion, but that comes only from the hurt that I am causing my family.”
“Steph has been incredible – I love her so very much. She is kindest soul I have ever met. My girls have been astonishing in their love, hugs and encouraging words of comfort. Both mine and Steph’s entire families have stunned me with their love, instant acceptance and support.”
“Of course they are worried about Steph, but I know they will scoop us both up. My friends are the best, especially Holly, who has been so kind and wise – and who has hugged me as I sobbed on shoulder. At ITV, I couldn’t hope to work with more wonderful, supportive team.”
Phillip concluded his statement by writing: “Every day on This Morning, I sit in awe of those we meet who have been brave and open in confronting their truth – so now it’s my turn to share mine.”
“This will probably all come as something of a surprise and I understand, but only by facing this, being honest, can I hope to find peace in my mind and a way forward. Please be kind, especially to my family. Phillip.”
